Saturday, July 14, 2007

50 Steps to an Awesome Relationship [Updated Version]

1. Don't just love each other, like each other too.
2. Tell her/him why you love her/him often.
3. Be affectionate to her/him.
4. Say I love you to each other, at least once in every 24 hour period.
5. Tell your lover you are their love Genie and you will grant him/her three wishes.
Things get quite interesting.
6. Make memories together.
7. Never forget that the simple things in life make life worth living.
8. The most cherished gifts are the ones that come from the heart, not the wallet.

Make gifts for her/him.
9. Have a night that is worth $1,000,000 dollars, but on a $10 dollar budget.
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
11. Instead of going out on a date, plan an evening at home, turn off the lights, burn scented
candles, watch the sunset, then take a long walk to gaze at the stars.
12. Never, ever forget holidays! (The ones that the two of you make up too)
13. Do everything to make him/her happy.
14. Don't evaluate or criticize your partner.
15. Defend and respect your partner.
16. Be there for the good and the bad times.

17. Find a nice secluded spot that is only yours and take her/him there every month.
18. Call from your vacation spot just to say Hi.
19. Always ask her/him how the day was. and listen!
20. Too much of a good thing can be bad.
21. Travel more than 1 hour out of town together.

22. Dance in the rain. (Even in your best outfit)
23. Watch the sunset together.
24. Have a candlelight dinner for two at least once a year.
25. Flirt in public. (Yes, that means holding hands)
26. Cook for each other.
27. Whisper sweet nothings.

28. Always close your eyes. Staring is rude. (Oops!)
29. Share your deep dark secrets with each other. (Not all)
30. Laugh together.

31. When you say I'm sorry, look at her/him in the eyes.
32. Don't let little mistakes become big mistakes.
33. Do anything to impress her/him.

34. Go for a drive together just to get lost.
35. Make love.
36. Make sacrifices for each other.
37. ALWAYS be honest with each other.

38. Give each other pet names. (Baby!)
39. Tell her/him your fantasies. (Buttons!)
40. Tell her/him what you like and don't like.

41. Write a story about how you two met and fell in love and give it to her/him.
42. Hugs are the best medicines.
43. NEVER EVER cheat on her/him.
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4. Play silly games.
45. Find out what's special to her/him and do it.
46. Spend all night thinking of 50 sweet things to do for her/him.
47. Always have a notepad and pen or some stationary with you wherever you are.
This way when you're waiting in line you can write them a quick love note.
48. During weeks when you feel you haven't had enough time with each other, send a bouquet of flowers or other gift to their work, home or school.
49. When you look into they eyes, tell her/him how you feel deep down and gently kiss their cheek.
50. Put a note in her purse telling her to meet you somewhere for lunch.


chr|s on 3:27 PM